REVISED to post: Not sure what I did but proble fixed. If your confused read below. Thanks Renee for wanting to help.
I ONLY changed the background a few weeks back and ever since then,I have no friend list on the sidebar to tell me or shop me when all you sweet people make new post.
I have it on the dash board when I sign in. It shows up fine on my work computer.......What have I done.
I love to read your blogs while sipping my coffee...somehow I fell your lost out there and I can't find you. HELP anyone.